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Welcome readers. Here's one of the most effective ways I've ever come up with to activate your Higher Power's help.

1.  Answers to Prayer in Ten Minutes- YEP! 

First of all, I'm a Christian, so I talk about God a lot.  But the focus of this post is on helping people grow rather than evangelizing, so try putting the name of your Higher Power in the appropriate place in the technique.   This may work when you're  asking help and guidance from Allah, Buddha, Mother Earth, Karma, or whomever. I know it works well with God, and I like the results.

The Story
The study leader in our adult Sunday school class was explaining how she led devotions every morning with her nursing students in the hospital in which she teaches. She explained that although one of her students was not a Christian, this student was really starting to get into the daily prayer, and mentioned to the class that after she prayed, she expected God to answer within ten minutes. The teacher told of how the Christian students began looking at each other with wide eyes and hands over their mouths trying to stifle their shock and amusement.  And, of course, the same reaction happened among the members of the Sunday school class when the teacher told the story to us. Even me, although I should have known better.

But think about it; God answering in ten minutes. Why not? 

The student's statement didn't sound so outlandish when I later realized that I'd been doing that very thing for about thirty years on a clockwork basis.  So in a minute I'll let you in on how I do it.

In the big black book they read from every Sunday around here, a fella named James said, "you ask and receive not because you ask amiss (in error)...KJV Jam 4:3.  A different way of saying that is that God can't give a good answer to a bad question. No answer is better than a bad answer, so that's usually what we get.

I explained this process in depth in a book I wrote a few years ago titled "What God Can't Do: Keys to Prayer Power."  It's available on Amazon, Barnes and Noble, and Kindle et al, but www.smashwords.com has an updated eBook version with additional goodies; get that one. (Another part is explained on the homepage of my website www.pastorjerrylive.org. Look for the "Silver Bullet Prayer".)

Anyway, usually the questions we ask are more like, "Show me all of what you want me to do with my life, and I'll do it. No mountain is too high, .............yada, yada, yada".  Don't ask to have it written across the sky; ask to have an "X" drawn on the ground right where your next footstep goes, then ask again after you've taken that step. 

We almost never need the whole answer; just the next step.

  

 

The APPLICATION

 

Part 1: Don't try to come up with a home run prayer; keep it simple like this:  God ( or ______ ), please show me ONE THING that I need to know about this situation.

Part 2:  Go do something else for a while; anything else.  You've asked God so now your request is His problem.  And don't keep bringing it up again, either.  In just a few minutes there'll be a unique and wonderful message that zips between your ears. You'll know because it's just plain different.  

 

Part 3: Follow the direction you have been given, then ask again after you've accomplished that. 

 And you can do this all day long.  <:((((><

 

 

 

 

2.  Performance Driven Praying vs. Outcome Driven Prayer.

by Pastor Jerry L. Lewis

 

Hi, I’m Pastor Jerry and I want to share with you a whole new world of prayer possibilities.  You see, most of our praying is what I call “performance praying,” and the idea is pretty simple: if we get into the right position, say the right words, act holy enough, include enough passion, get enough people pleading, and persevere long enough, we can get God off his kiester and out on the dance floor. 

 

As a pastor, when I said, “Let us pray….” the whole place did the bowed head/closed eyes thing just like Mama taught them to pray when they were little.  It might have worked just as well if, borrowing a phrase from law enforcement, I had said, “OK. Now assume the position.”

 

I have also noticed that no matter how old a cat is, if you pick one up by the scruff of the neck, it picks its feet up as it did when its mother carried it as a kitten. It seems to momentarily forget that it can walk for itself, and that walking is usually better than being carried. But it gets even better.

 

We buy books with titles like “28 Secret Steps to Answered Prayer,” with the idea that if we just go down the list of possibilities until we hit the magic word, the duck drops down with a C-note in its bill.  Presto!  Prayer answered!  Look at what we, ah, well, what God did.

 

It’s so simple, even a Caveman could do it (and probably did, with comparable results).

 

I’ve been thinking for some time now that there might be another way to do this thing called prayer. And as it turns out, there is, and it’s a whole lot less work, too. I call it outcome driven prayer, and I’ll show you a little of how it works. If you like it, keep doing it.

 

Once I went to the hospital to visit one of the older ladies of my church. She said they were talking about releasing her later that day and asked if I would say a short prayer about it. Well I thought up a pretty good prayer and ended it with “Lord, completely heal her, in Jesus’ name.”  I was sort of congratulating myself on my prayer proficiency several hours later when I got the news that instead of being released, she had died.

 

I struck up a little chat with the Boss that went something like this: “What’s the story here, Lord. I asked that she be healed.”

 

“Define healed,” He replied.

 

“It’s the freedom from disease and pain.

So He says, “What disease is she suffering from now?”

 

And then I say, “None. But You know very well that’s not what I meant when I said “healed.”

 

So then He says, “Then why not take the extra time to say exactly what you want to see and hear? Like, for example, you could have said, ‘Restore her to full health. Strengthen her so she can again sing in the choir. Give her a testimony to share in church next week about how I touched her. The possibilities go on and on, but you tried to slip a lazy prayer past Me. 

 

“There were several reasons she was taken then, but that Silver Bullet Prayer you used left a lot of blanks for me to fill in, and when I have to do extra work, I just fill ‘em how I want to. Tell me exactly what you want to see and hear about the person or situation you’re praying about next time, and you’ll see a lot different results.”

 

“Well,” I continued, “I’m worried you might get a little upset if I try to pin You down too much.”

 

“Maybe, Jerry. But I think the real problem here is you’re more worried about how you’re going to look if your prayer “doesn’t get answered.”  Don’t sweat it right now. Take some time to think about what we’ve discussed and next week I’ll show you how to start hitting 100% on your prayer requests.”

 

(I’ve hit the length limit on this post, so I’ll finish it later.  Next week: God gives Jerry an eye-opener)

 

Peace joy, and love.  Jerry    <:((((><