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| Encouragement Archives Kinda long but a great read.
Information Please When I was quite young, my father had one of the first telephones in our neighborhood. I remember well the polished old case fastened to the wall. The shiny receiver hung on the side of the box. I was too little to reach the telephone, but used to listen with fascination when my mother used to talk to it. Then I discovered that somewhere inside the wonderful device lived an amazing person. Her name was "Information Please" and there was nothing she did not know. "Information Please" could supply anybody's number and the correct time.
My first personal experience with this genie-in-the-bottle came one day while my mother was visiting a neighbor. Amusing myself at the tool bench in the basement, I whacked my finger with a hammer. The pain was terrible, but there didn't seem to be any reason in crying because there was no one home to give sympathy. I walked around the house sucking my throbbing finger, finally arriving at the stairway.
The telephone! Quickly, I ran for the foot stool in the parlor and dragged it to the landing. Climbing up, I unhooked the receiver in the parlor and held it to my ear. "Information Please," I said into the mouthpiece just above my head. A click or two and a small clear voice spoke into my ear.
"Information"
"I hurt my finger..." I wailed into the phone. The tears came readily enough now that I had an audience.
"Isn't your mother home?" came the question.
"Nobody's home but me," I blubbered.
"Are you bleeding?" the voice asked.
"No," I replied. "I hit my finger with the hammer and it hurts."
"Can you open your icebox?" she asked. I said I could.
"Then chip off a little piece of ice and hold it to your finger," said the voice.
After that, I called "Information Please" for everything. I asked her for help with my geography and she told me where Philadelphia was. She helped me with my math. She told me my pet chipmunk, that I had caught in the park just the day before, would eat fruit and nuts. Then, there was the time Petey, our pet canary died. I called "Information Please" and told her the sad story. She listened, then said the usual things grown ups say to soothe a child. But I was unconsoled. I asked her, "Why is it that birds should sing so beautifully and bring joy to all families, only to end up as a heap of feathers on the bottom of a cage?" She must have sensed my deep concern, for she said quietly, "Paul, always remember that there are other worlds to sing in." Somehow I felt better.
Another day I was on the telephone. "Information Please."
"Information," said the now familiar voice.
"How do you spell fix?" I asked.
All this took place in a small town in the Pacific Northwest. When I was nine years old, we moved across the country to Boston. I missed my friend very much. "Information Please" belonged in that old wooden box back home and I somehow never thought of trying the tall, shiny new phone that sat on the table in the hall. As I grew into my teens, the memories of those childhood conversations never really left me. Often, in moments of doubt and perplexity, I would recall the serene sense of security I had then. I appreciated now how patient, understanding, and kind she was to have spent her time on a little boy.
A few years later, on my way west to college, my plane put down in Seattle. I had about half-an-hour between planes, and I spent 15 minutes or so on the phone with my sister, who lived there now.
Then, without thinking what I was doing, I dialed my hometown operator and said, "Information, please."
Miraculously, I heard the small, clear voice I knew so well.
"Information."
I hadn't planned this, but I heard myself saying, " Could you please tell me how to spell fix?"
There was a long pause. Then came the soft spoken answer, "I guess your finger must have healed by now."
I laughed, "So it's really still you," I said. "I wonder if you have any idea how much you meant to me during that time."
"I wonder," she said, "if you know how much your calls meant to me. I never had any children and I used to look forward to your calls."
I told her how often I had thought of her over the years and I asked if I could call her again when I came back to visit my sister.
"Please do," she said. "Just ask for Sally."
Three months later I was back in Seattle. A different voice answered,"Information."
I asked for Sally. "Are you a friend?" she said.
"Yes, a very old friend," I answered.
"I'm sorry to have to tell you this," she said. "Sally had been working part time the last few years because she was sick. She died five weeks ago."
Before I could hang up she said, "Wait a minute. Is your name Paul?"
"Yes."
"Well, Sally left a message for you. She wrote it down in case you called. Let me read it to you." The note said, "Tell him I still say there are other worlds to sing in. He'll know what I mean."
I thanked her and hung up. I knew what Sally meant.
Never underestimate the impression you may make on others. Whose life have you touched today? Why not pass this on, I just did.
Author Unknown Found at http://www.topachievement.com/chronicles
The Value of a Promise by Jerry L. Lewis at 6:44 PM PST, February 24, 2008 Sometimes the special touches that God provides are just what we need in the midst of a situation to let us know that He cares about us and is watching over our lives. The lessons often show His sense of humor as well (He invented laughter, right?).
It seemed like an easy request, so I said, "OK," without thinking.
We had given each our sons a small rocking chair on their 2nd birthday. We have kept those small chairs for almost forty years, hauling them across the country and halfway back. Our oldest son decided to give his rocker to one of his daughters, and my wife asked me to get it down and repair it. It was under the low part of the roof clear in the back of the garage attic, and since my idea of storage means weaving everything into place, this got complicated in a hurry. I could see the chair but didn't see a way of getting to it short of unloading half of the attic. My first thought was, "This will have to wait until spring. Besides, she's not even walking yet!" I began practicing my "Gee, Honey, I really tried hard but there's no way I can do it" speech. Then I began thinking that she's going to ask if I at least moved it at all, so back up the ladder I went. I found I could reach it by worming my way back on some boxes, but the rocker sticking out the back of the chair seemed to catch on everything. Eventually by stages of alternating tug and then turn maneuvers I got it out, but one of the arms was missing. It wasn't where the chair had been, nor anyplace else I could work the flashlight into. I looked throughout the storage half of the garage below but did not find it, and thought my only hope would be to wait for spring to unpack the whole garage. I began practicing my "Gee Honey" speech again. I hadn't been looking at anything in particular, and had only gotten a few words into the speech when I noticed that I had inadvertently turned my face toward a white plastic egg-crate type container. As I looked closer, I found I was looking directly at part of the edge of a brown piece of wood inside the crate. I instantly recognized it as part of the missing arm, even though it was almost entirely covered by other things in the crate. It had been God's Devine intervention and direction, and since He's done similar things often in the past, I was more delighted than surprised.
We met there, with Him smiling, as the "Gee Honey" speech died on my lips.
In Matthew 21:28-30, Jesus talked about certain man who had two sons, saying, "and he came to the first, and said, Son, go work today in my vineyard. He answered and said, I will not: but afterward he repented, and went. And he came to the second, and said likewise. And he answered and said, I go, sir: and went not." Instead if reminding me that twice in the past hour I had tried to act like the second son, God kept me faithfully working to keep my word as He showed me yet again that there is much more value in one small thing done than in many great things promised. Blessings, Jerry
Life is a moment long. Some claim life is the number of hours, days, and years between birth and death, but life is just a moment long. Some say it is a summary of the high and low points, accomplishments and failures, and gains and losses person accumulated over a span of time, but that is a description OF a life. Those events happened in a moment. Life IS a moment, nothing more.
The overwhelming majority of the spiritual and emotional problems I see as a counseling minister can be reduced to just two causes: fear and guilt. Guilt is living in the past; fear is living in the future. Every negative emotion we experience is one of these two dressed up as something else. For example, greed is the fear of never having enough for the future. Frustration results from the delay of an expected future event.
I play a computer game called Minesweeper. Players use math to calculate the position of the ninety-nine hidden bombs. If you find them all, you win. Otherwise “Ka-boom!” The other day I was playing the game and had only four bombs left to find. I was pleased at how well I was doing when I made a wrong calculation and “stepped on” a bomb. Immediately I became upset over coming so close but losing in the end. Then I realized that I had been living just a few moments into the future, thinking about victory instead of enjoying the challenge of the game at the moment. We can be very close to the moment but still not live in the moment. The present moment is the only time we really have. After this one, we only have the next, and so on. Life is a moment long.
As I walk around my house, I see unfinished projects, which seem to shout, “Guilty! Finish me.” If I stop and make excuses, I have stepped into the past. If I stop and do it now, I am living in the present moment, the only moment I can utilize to accomplish anything.
Since time travel is yet to be invented, yesterday’s events will have to stay where all the yesterdays go, and tomorrow events will be out of reach until tomorrow, but then it will be today, and ah, well, ….see how it goes?
No matter how bad tomorrow may look, or how much better the past seemed, this moment is all there is. At this moment, I am safe and warm. I have food, and there are people nearby who love me. What I am writing may help others. It is helping me, and this is a moment well spent.
Life IS just a moment long. Blessings, Pastor Jerry 9/29/2007
Over the years, I have heard other teachers comment that kids have shown up in class with names that seemed as if their parents had looked into a can of alphabet soup and wrote what they saw on the birth certificate. Often those kids went by some other name because of embarrassment they felt when teachers guessed and mispronounced their names. What's wrong with a unique name for a unique kid? Did you know that each of us already has a unique name? Revelation 2:17 tells us that God has a special name for each of us. No one else ever had that name, and no one else ever will. It is God's personal name for us. If each of us has our own name, is it so big of a stretch to imagine that He has a special purpose for us as well? How priceless we all must be to Him. Have you asked Him today about your Life Purpose?
Priorities An expert in time management was speaking to a group of business students and, to drive home a point, used an illustration those students will never forget. As he stood in front of the group of high-powered overachievers he said, "Okay, time for a quiz" and he pulled out a one-gallon, mason jar and set it on the table in front of him. He also produced about a dozen fist-sized rocks and carefully placed them, one at a time, into the jar. When the jar was filled to the top and no more rocks would fit inside, he asked, "Is this jar full?" Everyone in the class yelled, "Yes." The time management expert replied, "Really?" He reached under the table and pulled out a bucket of gravel. He dumped some gravel in and shook the jar causing pieces of gravel to work themselves down into the spaces between the big rocks. He then asked the group once more, "Is the jar full?" By this time the class was on to him. "Probably not," one of them answered. "Good!" he replied. He reached under the table and brought out a bucket of sand. He started dumping the sand in the jar and it went into all of the spaces left between the rocks and the gravel. Once more he asked the question, "Is this jar full?" "No!" the class shouted. Once again he said, "Good." Then he grabbed a pitcher of water and began to pour it in until the jar was filled to the brim. Then he looked at the class and asked, "What is the point of this illustration?" One eager beaver raised his hand and said, "The point is, no matter how full your schedule is, if you try really hard you can always fit some more things in it!" "No," the speaker replied, that's not the point. The truth this illustration teaches us is: If you don't put the big rocks in first, you'll never get them in at all. What are the 'big rocks' in your life -- time with your loved ones, your faith, your education, your dreams, a worthy cause, teaching or mentoring others? Remember to put these BIG ROCKS in first or you'll never get them in at all." So, tonight, or in the morning, when you are reflecting on this short story, ask yourself this question: What are the 'big rocks' in my life? Then, put those in your jar first. *Stephen Covey This week's story was submitted by Skip Allen. Found at http://www.topachievement.com/chronicles | |
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